In a busy
life it's possible to forget that tomorrow is Valentine's Day. The significant
other in your life will be expecting some kind of token of recognition. Like
every other holiday it has evolved in modern times into an excuse to spend Greeting cards, flowers, chocolates and
jewelry are all standard iconic gifts -though I surprised the automobile
companies haven't tried to cash in on the day. Just look what Lexus and Audi
have done for Christmas. Maybe it's a
sign of the times, this year heart shaped pizzas are really popular.
You might
ask who was this Valentine guy? There doesn't seem to be very much information
available. According to church history Valentine was martyred on February
14th. Valentine was a common name in the
ancient Roman world and there could be up to three or four Saint Valentines and
all their stories have been confused and combined together. One story has him
executed in Rome another says it happened in North Africa.
A common
story recounts Valentine was executed because he conducted secret marriages for
Roman soldiers. The Roman army was the
most feared and successful military force of its time and Roman Generals felt
the best army was made up of single and homosexual men -married men were not
always welcomed. It was also a crime to proselytize and try to covert others to
Christianity. In one legend the Emperor Claudius II and Valentine were on
friendly terms until Valentine tried to convert him.
Some
historians feel the Feast Day of Valentine was conveniently created by the early Christian Church to take over the
Roman holiday of Lupercalia. Lupercalia
commemorated the She-wolf that suckled Romulus and Remus. It was also a
fertility festival where naked or near naked men ran through the streets with a
scourge made of goat skin. Supposedly chasing the woman around with this would
help them get pregnant. And last but not least it was a love festival where the
names of all the single adults where put into a lottery. Each set of men and
women that were randomly paired together
had to remain each other's companion for the festival.
Though
Medieval times Saint Valentine's Day was a pretty sedate affair. In European folklore, February 14 was the day
that song birds picked their mates. Geoffrey Chaucer used his poetic skills to
connect the day with the ideal of romantic love, from there you had a slow
steady trickle of romantic love going from the courtly to the common.
The next big
step in the democratization and commercialization of Valentine's Day was the book,
The Young Man's Valentine Writer (1797). It was a man own personal Cyrano and
Cliffnotes, if he was unable to write his own poetry or verse. The first Valentine cards began to appear in
the early 1800's. By mid-century they were already being mass produced.
Chocolates
as a Valentine give began to appear after the American Civil War. Mexico was
the original home of coco but chocolate making was a skill that was brought to
the United States by German candy makers.
Chocolate from the mid 1800's is
very different from what most people today would think chocolate should be. In
Mexico they still make that primordial chocolate. It is darker, a bit bitter
and has chalky texture -it was still good. As chocolate got sweeter and more
affordable its image changed from an exotic aphrodisiac to more innocent treat
-but always afterwards linked with the other Valentine rituals.
So be it
with chocolates, or poetry, a heart shaped pizzas or silly greeting cards that
make you laugh -don't forget tomorrow is the day to let that special person in
your life know how you feel about them.
If there is anybody in the Philadelphia that plans to celebrate a more Pagan version of the holiday please feel free to contact me.
I leave you with a song for tomorrow when sharing a heart shaped pizza for two.
My friend Harrison sent me this, said it was the Ayn Rand Valentine.
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